16 and 21 dating
I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said. I know guys with the same 5 year gap and they had no worries doing it.
The fact she's got strong political beliefs and so on at 16 says to me she's either very mature OR she's not being straight with you (and just agreeing with everything you say). To me the important thing isn't age but where you are in life. Also she is 16 there is literally no future in it for you.On the other hand if it was a 17 y/o and 21 y/o who were both working in retail full time together I'd find it less weird. even if you think she seems "mature for her age" (a classic line from creeps who think making a move on young teens is acceptable)... Saying she's mature for a 16 year old doesn't make her an adult!