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The harassment and mocking of “Men’s Rights Activists” and strangers on Twitter has gotten to me. How silly, this girl thinks we’re bigots for not wanting to contaminate our junk for some desperate, shitty lay. To let someone’s STI status be a game changer is a form of discrimination.To you it may seem reasonable, a matter of self-preservation. If you let someone’s herpes define who they are as a person and the role they will or won’t play in your life, you have reduced them to their STI status alone.Everyone with genital herpes can join us regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation or gender. Here’s another pet peeve of my email inbox: when a man (because it’s almost always a man) asks me if he should continue seeing this woman he’s been dating who just told him she has herpes.
My first outbreak was quite painful because it coincided with an infected spider bite, but now I show symptoms so rarely that I pose no credible risk to my partners 99% of the time.
When it came down to the brass tacks of who I am, there was no decision to be made at all.